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1. failforward@qoto.org's status on Saturday, 14-May-2022 05:21:30 UTC FailForward

   • Jens Finkhäuser 🌻

   @jens (and here I shall stop my rescuer tendencies triggering me 😄 - unless prompted/asked)

   • Jens Finkhäuser 🌻 (jens@social.finkhaeuser.de)'s status on Saturday, 14-May-2022 05:21:29 UTC Jens Finkhäuser 🌻

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     @FailForward No, it's all good.

     Me barfing thoughts out isn't asking to be rescued. But thanks for offering. Feedback is still appreciated.

     The rescuer and "one down" feels uncomfortable. I would say this is true, but perhaps situational.

     As in, I don't think I think generally worse of any person I feel compelled to "rescue", but *in the specific situation*, maybe, yes. I suppose that must be the case, in order to feel competent to offer help.

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   • Santa Claes 🇸🇪🇭🇰🎅 (clacke@libranet.de)'s status on Saturday, 14-May-2022 05:25:54 UTC Santa Claes 🇸🇪🇭🇰🎅

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     • Jens Finkhäuser 🌻
     @FailForward Thank you so much for the video, it was short but powerful and the two triangle models were presented very effectively.
     
     This has made me think and I will read up more on what people are saying about the Winner's Triangle, starting at en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Karpman_… .
     
     And thank you @jens for sharing your thoughtful reflections first of all, and also for them successfully prompting this informative response.
   • Jens Finkhäuser 🌻 (jens@social.finkhaeuser.de)'s status on Saturday, 14-May-2022 05:36:14 UTC Jens Finkhäuser 🌻

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     • Santa Claes 🇸🇪🇭🇰🎅

     @clacke @FailForward Prompting responses is not on me! I'm just as happy as you seem to be 😂

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