@FailForward No, it's all good.
Me barfing thoughts out isn't asking to be rescued. But thanks for offering. Feedback is still appreciated.
The rescuer and "one down" feels uncomfortable. I would say this is true, but perhaps situational.
As in, I don't think I think generally worse of any person I feel compelled to "rescue", but *in the specific situation*, maybe, yes. I suppose that must be the case, in order to feel competent to offer help.