@genrenomicon Soylent Hill

what i'm not talking about: if you've actually made your desires known and they still refuse to comply

maybe they're evil, maybe they're clueless and afraid to ask or learn, maybe they're convinced it should not be done, but at least there's something that the person who wants the thing done can be legit upset at it not being done

anyway this is all a subtoot of the horrible notes all over this https://riotouseaterofflesh.tumblr.com/post/673163972171743232/credit-fruitybiss-on-tiktok-this-oh-my-god

imagine someone actually trying to aspire to do this

imagine the clusterfuck of bizarre shit that gets done that nobody wanted

imagine the screaming once the intended beneficiary finds out how their partner just fucked up the house, the car, the pets at their mutual expense

"if he actually cares then he'd already know and would be actively looking for extra things to do to help"

if you see this, run, because this person has neither a basic understanding of boundaries nor the basic cognitive framework to develop a theory of mind

to be grateful that someone went above and beyond the call of duty is good

to demand that someone go above and beyond the call of duty is abuse

the latter should be a tautology but apparently it's blasphemous heresy guilty of death

@zens this is without a doubt the greatest thread i've seen all year

(but also possibly one of the greatest i've seen on masto that had been posted within the past 2 calendar months at least...)

@chemelia the horse is what gives the knight his power
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e2vhFsU_kkg