@fu As long as there's no agreement between the parents, you can't change the kids' eating habits. If you try, you'll just create strife.

But if you're the family vacuum you're also eating poorly. You're better off letting the food be thrown away (or put out for the neighborhood dogs or whatever hungry creatures roam your area at night).

Your doctor can probably refer you to a nutritionist or dietitian to help you plan what *you* eat better. They'll probably also want you to exercise, but I don't think medical insurance will pay for exercise advice or a health club / gym membership.