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1.     n8   Doesn't follow you 🇺🇦 (n8@mastodon.social)'s status on Friday, 12-Jul-2019 17:01:15 UTC     n8   Doesn't follow you 🇺🇦

   • Christine Lemmer-Webber

   @cwebber
   Like, I've started to unfollow people that who I have followed for a long time and had numerous conversations with, specifically because they have never return-followed me. And that, to me, feels like a slight.

   Am I being overly sensitive? Perhaps so. But, when we're part of the same community, it's awkward. If they're keeping me at arms length intentionally, I decide based on that to drop them. That is something I would like to be clear about, rather than "you've offended me" etc.

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   •     n8   Doesn't follow you 🇺🇦 (n8@mastodon.social)'s status on Friday, 12-Jul-2019 17:02:18 UTC     n8   Doesn't follow you 🇺🇦

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     • Christine Lemmer-Webber

     @cwebber Real point being: there are different reasons for unfollows. Some are important, some are not. Some are things the user might want to communicate about. How do you capture that?

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   • Christine Lemmer-Webber (cwebber@octodon.social)'s status on Friday, 12-Jul-2019 17:08:50 UTC Christine Lemmer-Webber

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     @n8 good/important thoughts. I've considered all that too. You're right that it feels like there's additional info to communicate, should we communicate that. It's not clear how to communicate that information with good UX, and if it would be a good idea to me yet.