@mattskala @thor thinking about that has made me much more conscious of how I relate to people with different beliefs, even when I find the belief itself repellent. I don't think I can change anyone's sincere beliefs but I *can* choose not to throw rocks at them and hope that by not driving them back to their own group, it might give them an opportunity to make connections outside their "fam" and make it easier for them to change their own minds in the future.