@moonman His response here is very clear, if you take his word for it. But his actions seem to support it too.https://www.garfieldtech.com/blog/tmi-part-2 The "role play things they don't actually really believe" counterevidence I meant is http://web.archive.org/web/20071207032540/http://www.goreanwhispers.com/logs/2003/sep22-03.html . I think that seems pretty sucky, but it's still only about how he likes a close pair relationship, and not how he treats people outside that relationship. I hope this case makes people think. I've seen queer people on Twitter defending him, because they're worried what other unusual personal preferences people might sneer at next time.