@guerrillarain or ..

1. just don't get bent out of shape over every little thing.
2. Give people the benefit of the doubt.
3. Don't over think things.
4. Be willing to learn from others no matter how different their views are from yours
5. Realize you might by trolled. Sometimes you can tell (Poe's Law). Just move on.
6. Accept apologies. If someone changes their mind, accept it at face value. Going on and on in is cancel culture.
7. This is just one big AOL chat room. It's ephemeral. #moveon