... too deep and I will *not* go down there again, if I have to piss people off to avoid it.
It also means I'm oversensitive to the mechanism. I see "eternal victimhood" in action, I am triggered, and I sniff for a pattern of abuse. I cannot avoid that.
What I can avoid is to declare every person applying the mechanism an abuser. I hope I have done that here sufficiently. The mechanism and its application are not the problem.
But I cannot "get on board" with this, either. Ever.