The one ladder leads to a sexual partnership relationship. The other _only has friendship_ on it. :blobcatsweat:
Hence these men would advice each other to watch carefull which ladder they were climbing. If they noticed themselves climbing the friendship ladder, it was pertinent they 'hop ladders', meaning doing something to get onto the sex/relationship ladder. Lest they get stuck on the friendship ladder, or in 'the friend zone'.
Siem (human_dude@weirder.earth)'s status on Saturday, 23-Apr-2022 21:12:15 UTC
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Siem (human_dude@weirder.earth)'s status on Saturday, 23-Apr-2022 21:12:15 UTC Siem