basically, that the idea that queerness and immaturity are aligned by default comes from the fucked up notion that there are no queer adults, and we can think about why we don't think there's a such thing as a queer adult.
this will take time to heal from. a lot of us are feral, orphan queers trying to raise ourselves; this is the life we have. next generations do not have to have this life.
good night, friends <3