@niamhgarvey @actuallyautistic @actuallyadhd I explain to new folk at work that the most common and important question I will ask them is "do you know where I left my tea cup?"
Sometimes ill dramatically stop the whole kitchen and demand "can anyone see my tea??"
It's nice because it makes people giggle and gives them an easy way to stack up brownie points and hear a grateful "yes, you're awesome, thank you."