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1. Hallå Kitteh (clacke@social.heldscal.la)'s status on Friday, 23-Jun-2017 00:19:29 UTC Hallå Kitteh

   • The Zeptar Perspective
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   @camby @zep @shpuld
   
   > It's impossible to not lie online.
   
   ... or offline. I don't see how a bar date is any better than an online date.
   • Hallå Kitteh (clacke@social.heldscal.la)'s status on Friday, 23-Jun-2017 01:15:57 UTC Hallå Kitteh

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     @camby @zep @shpuld Being single is not too bad, compared to meaningless relationships. And I agree that getting closer to people you actually know is the known sustainable approach. Depending on your circles it might not scale, though.
     
     I'm not actually dissing the bar thing. I'm just saying online is no worse, and might even be better, because bar social rules are kinda dodgy and covert.
     
     When doing this kind of search-by-quantity though, it's important to keep in mind that there is no shame in calling a failure early, quite the opposite.
   • Hallå Kitteh (clacke@social.heldscal.la)'s status on Friday, 23-Jun-2017 01:16:20 UTC Hallå Kitteh

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     @zep @shpuld @camby Always a good idea, whether single or ten years married.
   • Hallå Kitteh (clacke@social.heldscal.la)'s status on Friday, 23-Jun-2017 01:20:12 UTC Hallå Kitteh

     • The Zeptar Perspective
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     @camby @zep @shpuld And vice versa. Dating someone and then disengaging still means you are dateable material.
   • Hallå Kitteh (clacke@social.heldscal.la)'s status on Friday, 23-Jun-2017 01:20:43 UTC Hallå Kitteh

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     @zep @shpuld @camby If you did it once, you can do it again. No last chances.
   • Hallå Kitteh (clacke@social.heldscal.la)'s status on Friday, 23-Jun-2017 01:24:32 UTC Hallå Kitteh

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     @zep @shpuld @camby "No last chances" is true for any kind of deal, really, also when buying groceries. There is no super sweet discount that is unique in your lifetime. If you don't need tomatoes right now or in the near future, don't buy them, even if they're 50% off.
   • Jookia (jookia@quitter.se)'s status on Friday, 23-Jun-2017 01:30:56 UTC Jookia

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     @clacke @zep @shpuld @camby Everything you don't buy is 100% off
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   • Hallå Kitteh (clacke@social.heldscal.la)'s status on Friday, 23-Jun-2017 01:51:07 UTC Hallå Kitteh

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     @jookia @zep @shpuld @camby I annoy people close to me many times every month saying exactly those words.
   • Hallå Kitteh (clacke@social.heldscal.la)'s status on Friday, 23-Jun-2017 07:52:59 UTC Hallå Kitteh

     • Jookia
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     @shpuld @jookia @camby @zep It's certainly easier to achieve a frugal lifestyle when your own comfort is the only factor to consider.
   • Hallå Kitteh (clacke@social.heldscal.la)'s status on Sunday, 25-Jun-2017 05:23:12 UTC Hallå Kitteh

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     @shpuld @camby It's definitely good to know what you want out of life before diving into huge obligations.